When someone dies, I prefer to bless the family with cash rather than flowers. During this time, they need as much cash possible for the coffin, wake service and funeral. Help to relief some financial burden of the children; unless they are from rich family. ;)
So when I die, please don't give me flowers. I will be too dead to appreciate the flower or to smell them; unless you gift cash too along with the flowers. Since my life insurance is not much, my children would really appreciate it if you give more cash. Best if you can sponsor my coffin. hehehe.